Are you being realistic with yourself? Are you being honest with yourself?
I’m asking this because there are a lot of times that we judge others but we do not take any time to look within. Meaning we don’t try to figure out why we feel the way we do about the person we are judging. What bothers you about the person you are judging?
Next time you feel like you want to judge someone stop and ask yourself why. Ask what is it that makes me feel uncomfortable about them. What did they do that bothers me or makes me feel some way about them?
The interesting thing will be most times the things that make us uncomfortable about someone else are really the same things that make us uncomfortable about our own selves. It may not be the exact same thing but something about them in some way reminds you of you.
If you don’t believe me try it and see for yourself. Instead of pointing the finger at them point it first at yourself. This is a part of and how we start to become more honest and realistic with our own self. And this is how you grow and begin to become your best self.