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I have been seeing this guy seriously for about a year and I've never been to where he lives. He is a good guy but I don't understand why we never spend time at his place. I am not sure if I should continue to see him but I love him plus I don't want to give up on a good man do you have any advice?
Simply put a person who does not want you to know where they reside probably has something to hide good or bad. But you should've figured out the reason BEFORE you decided to become serious that is why you date before you mate!
The next time you see him face to face ask him if you can spend time with him at his place. If he say's no ask him why not without being aggressive, this may cause him to be defensive. You want him to feel comfortable enough to tell you what is going on, especially if he has a really good reason why you haven't been to where he lives. A "good man" will be honest with you and tell you what his situation is.
If he says no still and doesn't give you a reason then my dear, as hard as it may be you need to walk away. He's probably hiding something that is not good which is unfair and unhealthy for you to deal with.