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The Dean's List - Stop Being a Silly Woman
My grandmother always told me to "follow your first mind." If women followed my grandmother's advice, you would find that you not face the drama that comes with relationships.
If you begin to question the way your man relates to you, if he begins to make excuses for not calling or coming to see you, if you are unable to reach him for days and he tells you he lost his cell phone (by the way, you must have the home number too), or you catch him telling lies, it's time to walk. Don't waste time - get out!
Why do women continue to settle for less than they deserve. Start acting like the Queen that you are and stop enabling men to do whatever they want to do. Yes, it's your fault. A person will only do to you what you allow them to do. Stop placing the blame of the men. It's time for women to be accountable for their relationships. Take control!
So, how do you "Stop Being a Silly Woman?"
1. Don't believe everything he tells you.
2. Stop waiting by the phone.
3. Wrap it up - not only should you be worried about pregnancy, there are a vast array of diseases out there that can take you out!
4. Make yourself the very best you can be - continue your education, go to a museum, read a book, etc.
5. Cover up - just because they make it in your size, doesn't mean you should wear it. Leave something to the imagination.
6. Watch your mouth - do you know how stupid you sound with all of the four letter words coming out of your mouth?
7. Don't go to work dressed like one of the video mama's.
8. Clean up your house.
9.Learn to cook something other than Ramen Noodles and hot dogs. The sodium will kill you!
10. Demand respect as well as give it, but most of all, respect yourself.
In order for you to attract a good man, you must be a good woman first. Work on making yourself the very best you can be. The only way you will receive the love of a good man is to love yourself first.
There's an old saying, "when you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas." You will only attract a good man if you are a good woman. So, if you are only attracting the "dogs", you might want to take a long look in the mirror "puppy".
